HOMOSEX AND THE CHRISTIAN

The Making, and Breaking, of Homosexuality

Miles J. Stanford

EFFEMINACY EXPLAINED

The delicate, effeminate physique of some homosexuals is not necessarily due to any constitutional or glandular deficiency, but results from the lack of normal physical development during childhood. All too often by the time high school is reached he has neither the inclination, strength, nor coordination necessary for team sports, etc.

Homosexuality is never congenital! Even where there is physical effeminacy in a male due to genetic imbalance, it has nothing to do with homosexuality. Naturally he is going to be pampered and protected by Mom, and as likely neglected and rejected by Dad. It is this that might condition him for homosex, but not his heredity. The vast majority of physically deficient individuals have gone through life without ever having entertained a homosexual thought, but rather have overcome their physical weakness by a strong and admirable spirit of masculinity.

On the other hand, there are many physically effeminate individuals who naturally attract the aggressive homosexual, whereby they are often subjected to pressure and cultivation that ultimately draws them into the homosexual milieu.

Many, if not most, males involved in homosex give little or no indication of their perversion by their physical makeup or mannerisms. They are often above average physically, and may even excel in the field of contact sports. They tend to be aggressive in their homosexual pursuits, actually seeking a "wife," or to be "mothered" by the more effeminate type.

MOTHER-DAUGHTER -- It would seem to be almost axiomatic that women just naturally do not like each other. Certainly in line with this is the fact that lesbianism is primarily caused by a daughter being deprived of mother love. It is quite common for a mother to dominate her son, and reject her daughter.

In suffering from inadequate mother love, or actual maternal rejection, the deprived daughter may become overly attached to her father. If he should reciprocate in kind, making a pet of her and spoiling her, an abnormal pattern may be established in the daughter's emotional makeup. Too little mother and too much father.

Her healthy interest in boys may be curtailed by her unhealthy interest in her father, resulting in a negative attitude toward marriage--she may come to consider her dad to be quite adequate as the man in her life. One of the typical excuses for avoiding marriage is, "I'll never find a man who can compare with Daddy!"

This abnormal alliance could find her, especially in later years, seeking her longed-for mother love in a lesbian liaison. There is also the tendency to develop a "crush" on a teacher, for instance, who to her is a symbol of the kind of mother she longs for. She is likely to overemphasize her femininity in an effort to attract, not a man, but an older woman who is protective and motherly. This is the more passive type of homosexualism.

Conversely, the aggressive lesbian seeks to curtail her feminine traits while assuming, via clothing and mannerisms, an attitude and aspect of masculinity. This particular female inversion is often attributed to a father who may have wanted a boy, and who directs his daughter into the male realm. As she thinks male, she comes to act male, not only in her everyday circumstances, but also in her attitude toward women--she is a "husband" in search of a "wife."

Another common conditioner for lesbianism stems from a mother instilling in her daughter an unhealthy attitude toward sex, or a fear of men in general and marriage in particular. Other quite common causes are experiences such as molestation, rape, or seduction by a lesbian.

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(Materials by Miles J. Stanford are republished here under exclusive permission from the author.)